Many parents face the problem when their children do not seem to listen to their requests and instructions. In this article, we offer some simple tips on how to teach your child to listen attentively and respectfully.

Become an example. Children often learn from our behavior. If you want your child to become a good listener, show them how to do it. Spend time listening to what your husband, friends, and your child have to say. Remember that sometimes more listening means less talking.

Speak respectfully. Children are sensitive to their parents' tone of voice and manner of speaking. Try to avoid yelling, criticizing, blaming, complaining, and ordering when talking to your child.

Get attention. Before you start a conversation, make sure your child is paying attention to you. You can ask him to look at you and speak only when you see that he is ready to listen.

Give your child a warning about the conversation. Let your child know ahead of time that you want to talk. Set a time limit and give a warning about the conversation, for example, by saying: "I need to talk to you in a minute. Please be ready."

Lower your voice. Instead of yelling, start the conversation in a calm tone of voice. This often gets children's attention and creates a better atmosphere for communication.

Speak briefly and specifically. Instead of long instructions and lectures, make your requests short, clear and specific. For example, instead of "It's time to clean up," say, "Please get the toys off the floor before dinner." Children are more likely to respond to clear and specific instructions.

By following these tips, you can teach your child to be a better listener and establish more harmonious family relationships.